Weddings

 
 

Getting married in a church symbolises a couple's readiness to publicly declare their love and commitment in the presence of loved ones and, most importantly, before God. There is a profound sense of joy that fills St Barnabas Church when a wedding takes place. The excitement of a couple’s big day makes the church come alive in a unique way, and we are always delighted to host such a meaningful occasion.

Preparing for Your Wedding Day

To ensure your wedding is everything you envision, we will meet with you several times before the big day. These meetings, held in a relaxed setting, will help you to prepare - not just practically, but emotionally and spiritually. We also schedule an evening rehearsal, so that when the day arrives, you can confidently exchange your vows before your loved ones and with God’s blessing.

We do have some guidelines for weddings at St Barnabas, but we strive to accommodate your wishes as much as possible.

Who Can Get Married at St Barnabas?

You can marry at St Barnabas Church if you or your partner meet one of the following criteria:

  • You live in the parish

  • You are on St Barnabas Church’s Electoral Roll. To be included, you must be baptised and regularly attend services for 6 months.

  • You have a personal connection to the church or parish, such as:

    • Being baptised or confirmed at St. Barnabas Church

    • Having a parent or grandparent who was married here

    • Having lived in the parish for at least 6 months in the past

    • Having had a parent live in the parish for 6 months at some point

    • Having regularly attended services here for 6 months

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Services of Blessing and Thanksgiving

If you have a civil ceremony, you can still have your marriage blessed at St Barnabas Church. Whether you are planning a grand event or a quiet gathering with close family, each Service of Blessing is a deeply personal and cherished occasion. We also offer Services of Thanksgiving for anniversaries, renewing vows, or following difficulties in a marriage.

How can I arrange a wedding at St Barnabas Church?

If you are interested in planning a wedding at St Barnabas Church, please fill out the form below and return to reception@stbarnabaserdington.org.uk. Alternatively, you can print and return by post to:
Hannah Enefer, St Barnabas Church Centre, High Street, Erdington, Birmingham, B23 6SY

We will respond to your enquiry as soon as we are able, and we look forward to sharing in the joy of planning your wedding.

Further Information

For help with planning a church wedding, including a ceremony guide, guidance on the legal aspects of marriage, and answers to common questions, visit www.yourchurchwedding.org.

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